I just got done reading a great article in relevant about a guy's struggle with self righteousness in terms of sin, specifically in how he views homosexuals - not in terms of right and wrong, but pompusness. I'm there (not gay - self righteous). This really struck me:

I’m certain I’m not the only person who shakes his head at the sight of two men kissing—not out of prudence but out of some pompous belief that I am above them. The only reason one is shocked by sin is because he denies his own. Jesus hated sin more than anybody, but He was never shocked by it.